Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
June 08, 2026, 05:59:53 PM

Login with username, password and session length

Recent Topics

[Today at 03:41:12 PM]

[Today at 09:05:29 AM]

[Today at 06:35:36 AM]

[June 07, 2026, 08:49:06 PM]

[June 07, 2026, 08:25:00 PM]

[June 07, 2026, 07:40:24 PM]

[June 07, 2026, 08:30:07 AM]

[June 07, 2026, 06:14:14 AM]

[June 06, 2026, 06:02:16 PM]

[June 05, 2026, 01:32:35 PM]

[June 05, 2026, 11:33:28 AM]

[June 05, 2026, 10:42:18 AM]

[June 05, 2026, 09:22:48 AM]

[June 04, 2026, 08:44:19 PM]

[June 04, 2026, 05:14:22 PM]

[June 04, 2026, 07:45:56 AM]

[June 03, 2026, 09:14:04 PM]

[June 03, 2026, 07:12:24 PM]

[June 03, 2026, 04:24:02 PM]

[June 03, 2026, 10:43:36 AM]

[June 02, 2026, 11:39:43 PM]

[June 02, 2026, 09:46:21 PM]

[June 02, 2026, 07:54:51 PM]

[June 02, 2026, 04:55:30 PM]

[June 02, 2026, 04:54:08 PM]

Support NCKA

Support the site by making a donation.

Topic: Today is going to suck big time  (Read 5774 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

  • Location: Lodi, CA
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 365
Decided to reward myself for not smoking so I took the cash I would have spent on 3 days worth of smokes ($15) and bought a shirt on sale at REI
I figured buying a shirt I could use while kayaking would be a good idea seeing as almost everything I own is cotton


trianglelaguna

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • put the lotion in the basket
  • Location: Carmel Valley Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 4104
3 days is the bomb....love yourself brother....you are now a non smoker and soon will pretty much forget you smoked at all...I dont have any regrets...day one....is the big day ...from there it is just quick strong thoughts or a quick urge....think about something else...say the serenity prayer and minutes later you will forget you even wanted one...do this a few times and it goes away too...to where the thought is a flash every six months...I'm told even that goes away!!! good for you.....winner
« Last Edit: December 29, 2013, 09:06:35 PM by trianglelaguna »
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.

People aren’t supposed to look back. I’m certainly not going to do it anymore.”
― Kurt Vonnegut


trianglelaguna

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • put the lotion in the basket
  • Location: Carmel Valley Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 4104
I just high fived my woman..we both dont smoke togther...It was a big deal for us to quit...and still is/always will be

it is a BIG DEAL...no joke...stopping smoking is the shit..the feeling we get when we think about is all good....BIG DEAL..
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.

People aren’t supposed to look back. I’m certainly not going to do it anymore.”
― Kurt Vonnegut


Wanna b NCKA

  • Salmon
  • ***
  • Location: Yuba City Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2011
  • Posts: 313
Good going quiting,my mom and dad smoked all their lives,i hated going to there house because i would have to go home and take a shower after wards,at 60 years old my  mom quit cold turkey one day,i think after watching my dad wretch in a bucket for two hours every morning to clear his lungs she was finally scared enough to quit,Don't be that guy hacking up crap in a bucket,my brother smoked for years and his wife nagged him to quit,one day she told him if you quit for thirty days she would  buy a Harley,he quit cold turkey and didn't make her pay up.

The only time i ever smoked in my life was once while hunting a bug flew in my mouth and i figured my brothers cigarette had to taste better then that bug,it didn't.


trianglelaguna

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • put the lotion in the basket
  • Location: Carmel Valley Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 4104
I took a buddy along on my last rock fish outing of the year...been trying to help him for almost a year to get his act together -down and out alcoholic...let him use my spare fish-n-diver and all the gear-rods etc....swore last time I took him -never again...big hassle...
Well I dont have anyone to blame but myself for taking him this time...I knew better...left him in a kelp bed and bailed off to deeper fishing with Hector from this site after my buddy's  tenth cigg in my face...We are trying to catch bait and this guy is more focused on his ciggs and his cigg gear than on my gear and taking care of that...unloading was the same deal...I told(like many times before) "hey man,not to be a dick but those ciggs are blowing in my face and it took me 30 years to quit...could you please not smoke next to me"...so he cups his hand...really...cup your fucking hand...like that helps...
I could care less who smokes...hell i'm a smoker for my whole life...taking a break you could say...lol...but fuck,it was pretty sad to see a guy who i'm trying to help so addicted to them that he cant even tie his own lures on without a cigg going....
rant over...friendship over...the smoking was not the deal...his not putting effort into his own life let alone fishing was deal breaker...dropped him at his rent free house...carless driveway and and did not say a word...just drove away
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.

People aren’t supposed to look back. I’m certainly not going to do it anymore.”
― Kurt Vonnegut


CGN-38

  • Del Valle Storm Trooper
  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • Survivor Del Valle FnC 09'
  • Location: Felton, CA. (In the Redwoods)
  • Date Registered: Mar 2005
  • Posts: 3652
 :smt009

  Sorry to hear your friendship ended.  You tried, he didn't.
 


Member/survivor STORM TROOPER Brigade


novofish

  • Wear your PFD - every time OTW
  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • Location: Woodland, CA
  • Date Registered: Nov 2007
  • Posts: 3876
Good call on the non-cotton shirt :smt001
AOTY 2011 - 9th
AOTY 2012 - 16th
AOTY 2013 - 6th
FAOTY 2014 - 4th
AOTY 2015 - 5th
AOTY 2016 - 56th
AOTY 2017 - 37th


trianglelaguna

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • put the lotion in the basket
  • Location: Carmel Valley Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 4104
sorry for the highjack...just all the smoke in my face was right after reading and posting in this thread as the dawn broke before going and getting him for the day...the ciggs were constant and made me think of this thread-quitting-and stuff like how much effort smoking is whether I admit it at the time or not...it takes a big chunk of my time- my money-my friends airspace-my car-my clothes- my self respect...it is true...I had to crack the window everytime he got in the car...not wanting to be rude I did it slowly...like i did something wrong...I must have impacted many people with my smoking...he stunk...STUNK...reeked...this is smoking at it's best
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.

People aren’t supposed to look back. I’m certainly not going to do it anymore.”
― Kurt Vonnegut


  • Location: Lodi, CA
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 365
And so day 4 is here I think my body is starting to clean itself out I have been hacking up the nastiest crap I have ever seen all day but as the days go by quitting is getting easier
Don't worry about jacking the thread I'm sure there had to be more going in to ending your friendship than just the smoking but I could be wrong
I always tried to be a polite smoker and not blow it in peoples faces I knew I smelled and knew the smoke bothered people so I would do my best to not smoke in large crowds but now that I don't smoke I don't have to worry about that any more 


Archie Marx

  • AOTY Committee
  • *
  • Hobie Revo 13 & 16
  • kayakcity.com
  • Location: Auburn
  • Date Registered: Dec 2008
  • Posts: 5260
And so day 4 is here I think my body is starting to clean itself out I have been hacking up the nastiest crap I have ever seen all day but as the days go by quitting is getting easier
Don't worry about jacking the thread I'm sure there had to be more going in to ending your friendship than just the smoking but I could be wrong
I always tried to be a polite smoker and not blow it in peoples faces I knew I smelled and knew the smoke bothered people so I would do my best to not smoke in large crowds but now that I don't smoke I don't have to worry about that any more 

Well done!  Keep it up
1st - 2013 Angler of the Year
1st - 2016 Angler of the Year
1st - 2016 CCKF AOTY


rockfish

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • Location: Sacramento
  • Date Registered: Jul 2006
  • Posts: 5230
great job on day four! Changing life habits is always hard and smoking is known to be one of the very hardest to change.  perhaps reward yourself today and everyday because you deserve it!
Less Mental than before, Still savage AF tho <3

IG: she_savagly_gardens


  • Location: Lodi, CA
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 365
I read somewhere that after 5 days of not smoking the nicotine has left your body and all you need to fight is the mental aspect.
With that said I welcome day 5. I now consider myself officially a non-smoker. Today is going to be a good day  :smt001


FisHunter

  • SonomaCoastSafetySquad
  • Manatee
  • *****
  • Mooch Taught Me How To Live Life
  • Location: pinole,ca.
  • Date Registered: Mar 2006
  • Posts: 11765
Congrats and STICKwithIT!  :smt002
Be Safe, Not Sorry = B'ropeUpFool!

Winner of nothing but goodtimes with good friends.


trianglelaguna

  • Sea Lion
  • ****
  • put the lotion in the basket
  • Location: Carmel Valley Ca
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 4104
after a year or so for me...i still wonder if that shit gets bonded to my dna or something.....it is evil stuff and is grafted into my makeup forever...I can get breaks from the urge...even long term forget about it...but it is always there it seems and can flash up for a milla second and be super strong mental/reward center etc..then be gone again and wait it's time out for the right combo of events...that is why I dont like being around smoke...it is tiny particles regaining their toe hold...resetting the clock for me....
Ciggs are one bad mutha and kick the ass of anyone who thinks they are tough...it is just sheer luck that some get away almost...it is that strong[quote

author=Vanilla-Gorilla link=topic=51682.msg579090#msg579090 date=1388510392]
I read somewhere that after 5 days of not smoking the nicotine has left your body and all you need to fight is the mental aspect.
With that said I welcome day 5. I now consider myself officially a non-smoker. Today is going to be a good day  :smt001
[/quote]
We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.

People aren’t supposed to look back. I’m certainly not going to do it anymore.”
― Kurt Vonnegut


  • Location: Lodi, CA
  • Date Registered: Dec 2013
  • Posts: 365
On day 6 I rewarded myself by taking the kayak out for the first time I did get a strong urge to have a smoke when I launched but a handful of BBQ sunflower seeds took care of that right quick