Divorce advice for my son! Ex hitting him for $3000 1.5 years after divorce

When a divorce is final (1.5 years ago) can an ex wife decide she wants more money and have legal recourse if you say nope? Can you tell her to kick rocks? Final is final right? No kids involved and she is remarried too. Sons ex is telling him he owes her $$$ 3000+ Can we just get a restraining order to make her go away? No ties exist. Thanks in advance, I know some of you have been threw the meat grinder. Sorry to make you think back to bad times. I have no experience at all in this area.

It depends, and ther is no way to answer the question with a comprehensive list of exactly why it depends.

Let me know if you need a referral to a family law attorney in the area (assuming Sacramento/placer).

Like all things legal "it depends". 

First, was alimony left up to "the discretion of the court". 

How long was the marriage,

If she is indeed remarried, and there is a full final decree signed by the judge,

I have no legal education other than a 4 year fight/negotiation to get my final decree.

There's a few people here that can give you a better answer bu you know that.

Is it just $3000 one time? or some ongoing type of support, or is it related to the property settlement?

Just came in from building a patio cover, and saw this and you're right, brings back memories,

A friend gave me a plaque for my office, it said,

A wife only lasts as long as the marriage, an ex-wife lasts a lifetime,

The info given is really not enough to give an accurate answer. I'm in IT so it's not even my profession. However, speaking financially and mental stress, 3,000 isn't too massive a sting financially. An attorney will swallow that up in no time.

So as far as being right or wrong to me isn't the question. I think it's how much stress or lack of stress is it worth to that person?  I think life is too short so I would just give the ex 3 grand just to shut her up and leave me alone.

Some people will want to fight for the principal of it and stretch things until  they win. Possibly costing more in Atty fees than just the 3 grand.

It's all about what the person values and what they feel is more important.

Bitches be crazy!
Good luck.

  I think life is too short so I would just give the ex 3 grand just to shut her up and leave me alone.

what if 2 years later she wants more? then what? we don't know the circumstances of the court outcome. if the divorce was final and nothing was pending hell no i give the bitch 1 cent. 50/50 down the middle at the time of final ruling. unless there is something both shared still now?

Like with drugs, just say "no!" 

She is entitled to axe, even rudely demand.  Its a free country, right?  Don't mean he necessarily needs to respond ...

3,000 ..... An attorney will swallow that up in no time.

True.

They had no joint property, The car they owed on, she traded in on a new car, eliminating that joint debt. 2 years 2 months marriage. Looking for money to pay off a wedding ring she sold and spent money instead of paying it off. Dinners he took her to. 1/2 the divorce cost that she ran up with a lawyer., (paralegal) Her friend. Probably did it for free and got $$$ from her dad to spend on other stuff. Threw the entire marriage all her money was kept separate. His money was spent by her till he had to borrow $ for gas to get to work. one bitch with expensive taste! ($300.00 jeans!) Frustrating

seriously bro, there is so much going on in your last post.  U guyz should pony up, retain and consult with a family law attorney.  If you want the straight shizzle, that's what you need to do, cuz honestly your last post was slightly wack, no offense.   

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They had no joint property, The car they owed on, she traded in on a new car, eliminating that joint debt. 2 years 2 months marriage. Looking for money to pay off a wedding ring she sold and spent money instead of paying it off. Dinners he took her to. 1/2 the divorce cost that she ran up with a lawyer., (paralegal) Her friend. Probably did it for free and got $$$ from her dad to spend on other stuff. Threw the entire marriage all her money was kept separate. His money was spent by her till he had to borrow $ for gas to get to work. one bitch with expensive taste! ($300.00 jeans!) Frustrating

You sould check out the Arby's clause in the California Family Code. 

They had no joint property, The car they owed on, she traded in on a new car, eliminating that joint debt. 2 years 2 months marriage. Looking for money to pay off a wedding ring she sold and spent money instead of paying it off. Dinners he took her to. 1/2 the divorce cost that she ran up with a lawyer., (paralegal) Her friend. Probably did it for free and got $$$ from her dad to spend on other stuff. Threw the entire marriage all her money was kept separate. His money was spent by her till he had to borrow $ for gas to get to work. one bitch with expensive taste! ($300.00 jeans!) Frustrating

I'm not legal, but had divorce experience 10 years ago. it sounds she is asking to cover her legal fees and joint debt. - if it was not mentioned in divorce settlement 1.5 years ago she can only ask... usually court will not owner such requests unless she can prove that your son did not mentioned some assets during divorce (also it's hard to push to the court).

Nothing on final papers. All worked out back then now she decides she wants more? Whacked you bet! This whole thing has been horrible! The fact she is right here in town sucks.

Sounds like a greedy bitch.tell her new husband to get a better paying job!!! opps sorry I went thru a divorce and it was one of the worst times in my life but now I thank god everyday for the life I have now, Its far from perfect but thats life, Right?

I'm sure she has spent all his money and is looking for more. Working at in and out (I can't go there anymore 'cause I'd probably flip her off embarrassing myself while at it) Sorry I'm looking for info here but would prefer to not retain legal beagle if avoidable

All I can say is, like me, if he woulda just snuffed her out, he would prob be out on parole.  Now that he has had time to think about it, he would get the needle. But, they dont do that anymore, so it is really a push. Jk

Mine's threatening it too, I told her to file the papers and let's letr buck! Good chance, because she is married, she wont get squat more. Alimony is DONE, she is remarried. I would tell him, to tell her, go for it! Cant get blood by squeezing turnips.

Let me represent him!