Divorce advice for my son! Ex hitting him for $3000 1.5 years after divorce

Sorry I'm looking for info here but would prefer to not retain legal beagle if avoidable

No problemo, I also provide Internet medical advice and tax consultations.   

That is to say......consult a family law attorney!!!  Especially if you went the do it yourself route the first time (assuming so since you mention no "paper") and are now getting drug back through the mud.

Probably the best plan... Gonna wait a bit to see how this plays out with her demands not met or replied to. Found a legal guy (customer) Also checking out a resource for calfire legal aid (threw union)

  I think life is too short so I would just give the ex 3 grand just to shut her up and leave me alone.

what if 2 years later she wants more? then what? we don't know the circumstances of the court outcome. if the divorce was final and nothing was pending hell no i give the bitch 1 cent. 50/50 down the middle at the time of final ruling. unless there is something both shared still now?

 I belong to a group of former divorced peeps. I know what they go through. Been there myself.  Fight on if he wants. Retainers for divorce attorneys(good ones anyway) cost more than 3 grand. It won't end quickly. If he has the time and effort, then go for it.  It won't be fun win or lose. That's all I'm saying. 

He can get something written up indicating the 3 grand will be the full and final payment on their divorce. I'm sure he can get legal aid to type it up and notorize it with he and his ex signing the agreement that this is the full and final payment.

I'm pretty sure once it's finalized there's no recourse for anything other than fraud(someone hid assets) or unpaid income taxes which even if one of them didn't work they're both held responsible for. The jewelry store can go after your son if she didn't pay off the ring and it's in his name. I think small claims court could resolve that issue if it's not specifically mentioned in the division of assets.

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Friend of mine had the same crap happen she hired attorney then jacked up all the credit cards then before divorce was final she filed bankruptcy. Since he was a contractor  and the construction  business took a nose dive his income was reduced to very little so she ended up paying him 200 a month alimony. If she has a job tell him to ask for alimony.

Sorry I'm looking for info here but would prefer to not retain legal beagle if avoidable

No problemo, I also provide Internet medical advice and tax consultations.   

That is to say......consult a family law attorney!!!  Especially if you went the do it yourself route the first time (assuming so since you mention no "paper") and are now getting drug back through the mud.

 

It's pretty silly to come to a kayak fishing board to seek family law advice. On the other-hand... if you think you need an appendectomy, I know a few guys who went to med school in eastern Europe and keep a relatively hygienic shed.

Working at in and out (I can't go there anymore 'cause I'd probably flip her off embarrassing myself while at it)

That's the biggest tragedy in this story. Sad state of affairs when a man can't get himself a double-double and some animal style fries.

I know what I'm getting for lunch tomorrow now. 

All I can say is, like me, if he woulda just snuffed her out, he would prob be out on parole.

I got a buddy where that didn't work out so well for him. DA saw right past the crime if passion defense.

Only $3,000.00 to make her go away? That would be worth it to me.

 My ex wife tried that but with much more. Until handed legit legal papers it was all bs talk to me. Never happened. If I remember correctly on the paperwork there is a section you can check that waives her right to come after you financially for x amount of years. May want to pull it out and look over that.

Dupe

I have a friend whom went through something close to the and is still paying. His EX told him she would ruin him. She contacted all his customers trying to get them not to do business with them. Because they were Married for over 10 yrs the Alimony will last forever unless she gets married so she won't. His wife just one day went physco. She wanted a raise and she got it. But that was because of the length of time of the marriage. To me if they were only married 2.5 yrs and no kids or common property I'd tall her to pound sand. but if she gets an attorney he could have to pay the attorney and court costs, if it is found he owes. Each case is different and a gamble as to what he does. Myself I'd pay for an hour and see the divorce attorney and ask. Then make the decision, because he has all of the information on the case.   

I'm no lawyer, but I've seen some on TV!     Like others have said, if the divorce is final, and he has kept up his end of the bargain, then I'm not sure what she can do other than sue again stating something like coercement or something like he had hid money from her, such as an inheritance that she could claim part of.  So if she wants to pony up money for a lawyer, then I would start to worry.  But if he doesn't have lots of assets or a big salary, i'm in doubt that she has any way to prove that she is entitled to anything.  But I'm no lawyer! 

It might be worth an hour of divorce lawyer fees to uncover any legal standing if any the ex wife has. I am currently involved in a situation where a lawyer is suing a group of investors  in a property. This includes my wife. Our lawyers said he has no case but in order to prolong judgement the lawyer is using every legal hook in the book including personal depositions in a county two hours drive away and requests for reams, literally, of paperwork. It amazes me that what is right and what is legal can be so far apart. What is common sense to us may not be persuasive in court and one needs legal help to see the obscure legalities.

Talked to a devo lawyer and he said to message her with the below question and statement...
Me to her pm on Facebook...
Do we need a restraining order? Please avoid me at all costs and DO not contact me for anything including Automotive help...
Her reply...
I honestly don't know what you are talking about? Please fill me in
then this...
I'm sorry that was a stupid response on my part. I know what your upset about. I didn't mean to upset you all again. No you don't need a restraining order. I just thought I could ask for him to help pay for half of the divorce since it was a mutual decision. Sorry. Clearly that was a mistake. I apologize.

Think this may all go away now as her job would probably dismiss her due to a restraining order.
Thanks for all the help even if it was just a place for me to vent a bit and not go to jail.