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Topic: Sadness and relief... like death but no corpse  (Read 2191 times)

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c00perfish

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Sorry to hear about it..but as others have said, a lady that sticks to dollar bills like that won't bring happiness..

Well, she may, but only for about the duration of three fourths of a song.  Then you have to feed the meter again sux

I'm not the kind to feed a meter for a lady..unless we're talking about the meter lady here  :smt013 I'm the king of parking tickets. *threadderail* (jk)


ex-kayaker

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That's rough, but on the flip side it's better to have it happen now rather than X number of years (and children?) down the road.



Indeed.  I was not married but my daughter's mom pretty much split along similar terms (only in much more dramatic fashion).  Since we have a daughter together she has the green light to cause havoc in my life until I die. 

If he ever wants to feel better about his situation, tell him to drop me a line and I'll tell him what I deal with....he will think his ex problems realy aren't that bad :smt003
..........agarcia is just an ex-kayaker


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Sorry to hear that, some people just suck!  :smt013
But, you are an awesome dad and together with you and Family, he will be better in the long run. 
Fishing is quite the best therapy in my book   :smt004
Less Mental than before, Still savage AF tho <3

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Tote

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*My buddy's best advise is to marry your best friend  :smt002

I don't think Art would be down for that.   :smt044
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Weimarian

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Thanks for the rant replies. I think he's handling this better than I am.... He and My wife went and got all his stuff today... Some closure... Some raw wounds ... She took all the pictures down already :smt011 Going to buy him a fishing license on the way home... Deep sea trip this Saturday possible. Know of a Good capt/Boat out of bay area?
« Last Edit: July 23, 2012, 03:49:27 PM by Weimarian »
my new name should be Ostridge. Got my head in the sand. Going fishing and letting go of the other stuff I can't control anyway!


Eric B

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Steve Talmage with Flash Fishing is good, if you want a smaller boat.


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Frank-
You are a Wise man. Words to live by below

My first wife years ago ,1970's, left me for the same reason. She couldn't or wouldn't live on a Deputy Sheriff's salary. I saw her a few years ago and she is married to one of the highest paid lawyers in the state of California. The one thing that struck me was that she confessed that the Happiest she had ever been in her life was with me. Go F-ing figure.
Happiness isn't money but what life's adversities have to offer and making it through. Coming out of adversities has always built a better foundation for living and then a happier life with the knowledge that I am still here and living a "Very Good Life".
This weekend I spent with the"Mooch". I am always amazed at how this guy lives with his illness. I will always be grateful for friends and family like Joel because of the rich life he lives. Sometime and not all those with a higher earning average, forget about the fact that we are here to enjoy life rather then seek out a Higher Power like your Ex Daughter-in-Law.
I am a firm believer that some times, Youth is wasted on the Young. Just my two cents. Frank
Its time to get vicious with the fishes


alien

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I have two X wives and I don't talk about it . It just bring back the HORROR! I married again for the third time and the 3rd time is the charm :smt003


Mienboy

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Wow I'm at a lost for words,but keep in mind karma is a mother f,er she will get her dues in time
My biggest worry is that my wife(when I'm dead)will sell my fishing gear for what I said I paid for it


Weimarian

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Wow I'm at a lost for words,but keep in mind karma is a mother f,er she will get her dues in time

 :smt003 Yup!  :smt044
my new name should be Ostridge. Got my head in the sand. Going fishing and letting go of the other stuff I can't control anyway!


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Remind your son that there are over 3 BILLION women in the world.
I think with those numbers his odds are pretty darned good.
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mooch

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*My buddy's best advise is to marry your best friend  :smt002

Not sure Andy or Adam will go for it...but give it a shot!


 :smt003 :smt005 :smt005 :smt044 :smt044 :smt044

Best post of the year

But seriously,
I hope your son knows he is better off ...... Money does not make a marrige.

Adam is a germaphobic and Andy has a dirt lip.......I still love them both...and I don't know why  :smt002


mooch

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*My buddy's best advise is to marry your best friend  ;-)

I don't think Art would be down for that.   :smt044

I would rather get bitten by a poisonous snake....no, that would be too quick.

I would rather get wrapped by a 20 foot anaconda and have it chew on my face while I slowly pass out  :-D

I love Art....sometimes  ;-)

*Ron, sorry for the Thread jack...again  :smt011 At least I did not bring up the Zombie thing   :-D
« Last Edit: July 23, 2012, 06:58:32 PM by Mooch »


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Remind your son that all this is not because your son isn't good enough for her. 

Shes not good enough for your son.


reelfish

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Thank God for him there are no children involved. You would have to add a couple hundred thousand to what he lost already. Something tells me he will love again and I hope it will be better. It was for me.

Best wishes for your son,
Kevin


 

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