took the 23 and me genetic test and found out I am 75% japanese, 25% north western european, mostly irish. I knew it!

Andy not even sure that bud light qualifies as beer

I like Glenlivet, Kirkland 24 years (hey its good), Jameson, Bulleit Rye, and discovered that I am not a fan of Peety Scotch like Glen Garoche.

cleaning out my father in laws stuff and found a stash of trout tackle. Looking at the lake trollers. Any idea the pound test? Its on a cable so I assume really high. http://www.rapala.com/luhr-jensen/trolling-accessories/lake-trolls/

thanks guys. When Robin was first diagnosed in 2010, I googled her odds and found the scary ass number of 11 months. that turned into 7 damn good years. We hiked, we skiied, we ordered appetizers AND dessert. We truly lived the best lives we could together, accepting each activity she lost by finding another. When she couldnt work out anymore, we discovered binge watching tv. She truly only declined completely for a few months and I am happy that she is on the next adventure. After 34 years with me she deserves a break 

I am going to take a bit of time to get my head screwed on straight then I plan on catching up on some long delayed water therapy

Now lets all channel this love and energy to Steph

Brent, you and your family will face each and every day for the rest of your lives altered. But instead of fear and loathing, love and joy. When faced with something like this, one realizes that each day is a gift. None of us are promised a tomorrow and in that regard we are all the same. I think of your family often, wishing you healing and love.

Eugene

Brother I know what you are going through. So some advice from both an old fart and old hat at this. You know the bullshit about one day at a time? VERY TRUE. Bad days are this hour is good, this minute is good. Especially for your kids, you have to find joy every hour. Nice plant, cool sunset, look at that tree, this juice tastes awesome etc.

Worry is impossible to avoid, but doesnt really help. So whatever comes down the road, just look at each thing and say "OK, so this is what we do." Then do it.

on the pain meds, it is amazing how differently people react. Robin hates Oxy but can tolerate vicodan. Same class, but different so be sure to see if they can try different meds.

make sure she sees some breast cancer support groups later. They know more about lymphedema, and "cords" than doctors do. Robin's melanoma surgery involved removal of lymph nodes similar to breast cancer surgery. Their wisdom will help a lot. Hell after listening to them talk, they even helped my frozen shoulder therapy!