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Title: Melanoma sucks
Post by: e2g on January 16, 2014, 11:01:56 AM
3 years ago my wife Robin was diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma. She had surgery to remove it. The doctors wanted her on interferon.  After doing her own research, she decided against treatment.

In November, the cancer came back, now stage 4.  The doc said she made the right call about the interferon, turns out it doesn't work well for melanoma. Wants her on yervoy.  Again after doing her research, she has opted against treatment. This is not a knock on modern medicine or "giving up."  It is about her belief that her best odds are not with drugs.

She is exercising as much as ever, boosting her immune system and constantly sings "life is good today."  She doesn't really see it as a battle or fight but rather trying to heal.

What our family needs right now is prayers and positive vibes.

thanks
Eugene
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: Weimarian on January 16, 2014, 11:05:18 AM
We will be thinking of and praying for her and your family...
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Post by: dilbeck on January 16, 2014, 11:06:38 AM
Terrible, terrible, terrible!!!

Kudos to Robin for doing what she feels is best!

Thoughts and prayers for Robin and your family, Eugene!

Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: BigJim on January 16, 2014, 11:08:18 AM
Eugene....Robin, and you and Nathan and your whole family are in our thoughts and prayers.

You guys know that anything at all I can do besides that, all you have to do is ask...

I will also ask all the guys out diving on Saturday to keep Robin and your family in their minds and hearts during the day.

Cancer f*cking sucks.

Sincerely,

Jim
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Post by: Lost_Anchovy on January 16, 2014, 11:12:46 AM
Sending positive vibes your way buddy. We are all wishing you guys well.
Keith
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Post by: vwool on January 16, 2014, 11:30:52 AM
Will be thinking of your family.
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Post by: Desertdiver on January 16, 2014, 11:45:59 AM
From our Hearts and actions , Positive thoughts and vibes always.
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Post by: rockfish on January 16, 2014, 11:52:44 AM
That sucks!!  You are in my thoughts, be well.
Jim
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Post by: Sailfish on January 16, 2014, 11:54:00 AM
Sending positive vibes right now...
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Post by: FisHunter on January 16, 2014, 11:54:35 AM
positive thoughts Eugene
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Post by: Fish Master1 on January 16, 2014, 11:56:31 AM
Postive thoughts and prayers from my family to yours!!!
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Post by: PISCEAN on January 16, 2014, 11:59:55 AM
positive vibration to you & Robin & family, Eugene.
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Post by: The X Inn Keeper on January 16, 2014, 12:02:17 PM
Positive thoughts and prayers E2g.
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Post by: Str8FishiN on January 16, 2014, 12:06:24 PM
Prayers and positive vibrations on its way! 
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Post by: Shicken on January 16, 2014, 12:08:02 PM
Hi Eugene,

Stay positive, keep living! 
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Post by: Sin Coast on January 16, 2014, 12:08:27 PM
Sending positive vibes to the 2G family right now! And later tonight. And tomorrow and the next day. Until the healing is complete!
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: BigJim on January 16, 2014, 12:09:42 PM
Sending positive vibes to the 2G family right now! And later tonight. And tomorrow and the next day. Until the healing is complete!

+1 on that.

We're here for you all for as long as it takes.

Sincerely,

Jim
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Post by: Herb Superb on January 16, 2014, 12:24:08 PM
Sending positive vibes your way. Keep up the positive outlook on life. She will beat this cancer.
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Post by: trianglelaguna on January 16, 2014, 12:31:11 PM
Robin is in my prayers......hang in there
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Post by: Ben on January 16, 2014, 12:54:59 PM
Prayers and positive thoughts for Robin and family Eugene. Keep up the good fight! We are here for you!!!
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Post by: Archie Marx on January 16, 2014, 12:57:41 PM
Many in my family have been hit with melanoma.  Our thought are with you.
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Post by: ginoltk on January 16, 2014, 01:02:18 PM
Stay strong and sending positive vibe your way. Like Big Jim said, we are here for you if you need anything.

Sent from my SCH-I545 using Tapatalk

Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: CappyMoMo. on January 16, 2014, 01:10:15 PM
This makes me really sad.  Wishing you all the best,  and as always,  shout out if you need anything.   The Morgan Family is sending our love.  Take care!
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Post by: FishingForTheCure on January 16, 2014, 01:20:56 PM
I think it's easy to say we are all here for you ... as a family.

   If there is ANYTHING you need, I'm right here for ya in Watsonville & more than happy to help out.

Bill
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Post by: Fish 'n Brew on January 16, 2014, 01:23:47 PM
Positive thoughts coming your way.
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Post by: raydon on January 16, 2014, 01:28:22 PM
Thanks for letting us know about her wishes.  Keep us posted from time to time.  We care and are concerned about you and Robin and are pulling for you both. 
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Post by: MANBEARPIG on January 16, 2014, 03:21:42 PM
Positive vibes coming your way... :smt001
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Post by: Mr.Matt on January 16, 2014, 03:37:09 PM
Prayers your way Eugene!
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Post by: LapuLapu on January 16, 2014, 03:37:39 PM
Sending healing thoughts to Robin!  Stay strong bro! 

Rey
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Post by: ravensblack on January 16, 2014, 03:49:29 PM
This is terrible Eugene. I hope that your wife makes it through all this with a smile and a positive attitude. Our hearts are with you guys. Take care.
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: novofish on January 16, 2014, 04:12:41 PM
Sending good vibrations your way E2g family! :smt001
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Post by: Great Bass 2 on January 16, 2014, 04:51:24 PM
Sur Crew has you back my friend. Anything you need, just let us know.
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: Tote on January 16, 2014, 05:43:28 PM
The vibe speakers are cranked all the way up.
You should not only be able to hear it, but feel it all the way from here.
Prayers and well wishes to your entire family.
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Post by: Bushy on January 16, 2014, 05:49:29 PM
In my prayers too, brother.
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Post by: Hojoman on January 16, 2014, 06:17:54 PM
Best wishes for a full recovery for Robin.
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Post by: SeaWeed on January 16, 2014, 06:32:12 PM
I'm down with her on her decision. I had cancer and made my choice. The think to ask which sounds like you guys did. What is worse the cure or the cancer. I will pray for many yrs of happiness for you and your wife.
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Post by: Pacifico on January 16, 2014, 06:32:31 PM
also sending my positive thoughts.
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Post by: beenfishin on January 16, 2014, 08:19:51 PM
Strong thoughts and prayers your way!
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Post by: frankfishing on January 26, 2014, 01:19:09 AM
Going through some of this in my family. Warm and happy thoughts your way.
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Post by: Bird on January 26, 2014, 06:03:27 AM
Positive energy and prayers Eugene - best wishes to Robin and your family.
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Post by: Big J on January 26, 2014, 07:43:10 AM
Huge hugs and good thoughts to Robin and your family as you support her during this difficult time. (Little E gives the BIGGEST hugs ever!)

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Post by: bloodbath on January 26, 2014, 08:11:57 AM
Your family will be in my prayers Eugene. If you need help w/anything just lmk as I am close by.
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Post by: Uminchu Naoaki on January 26, 2014, 10:21:31 AM
So sorry to hear that Eugene...
Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family.
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Post by: LilRiverMan on January 26, 2014, 01:51:40 PM
Positive thoughts and prayer coming your way. If she hasn't already been there. I'm sure there are melanoma survivors forums that will have insights you can use. Even the smallest edge can make a difference.
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: Fuzzy Tom on January 28, 2014, 08:29:18 AM
I can see a bit of Aptos from my window, and I'll be sending positive thoughts your family's way every time I look out.   
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Post by: FishingAddict on January 28, 2014, 09:02:05 AM
I pray for a full recovery soon!
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Post by: BigJim on January 28, 2014, 09:08:25 AM
Thinking about and praying for Robin every day.

 :smt008

Sincerely,

Jim
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Post by: Darius (Burong Isda) on January 30, 2014, 01:24:15 PM
Positive vibe on your way bro. Hope all goes well.
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: BigJim on September 06, 2016, 08:29:27 AM
Bumping this to try and get some more positive energy, good vibes, thoughts, prayers etc for Robin...

e2g posted on FB a few days ago that an MRI revealed that the melanoma has spread and that she now has several tumors in her brain, and that thoughts and prayers are very much appreciated...

My heart is breaking for Robin and Eugene and Nathan and their whole family, and I have told Eugene and Nathan to just me know if there is anything that I or PIF can do to help out at all...

Sincerely,

Jim
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: Lost_Anchovy on September 06, 2016, 09:27:52 AM
Wow...I keep the families of those fighting cancer in my thoughts each day. I wish you guys the best and all the love. As always we are here for you.
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Post by: rockfish on September 06, 2016, 09:29:52 AM
Oah man, I'll keep her in my thoughts.
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Post by: Darius (Burong Isda) on September 06, 2016, 02:05:44 PM
Prayers and positive vibes. I hope she heals quickly.
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Post by: VK on September 06, 2016, 03:27:42 PM
Sending positive Vibes and good thoughts   
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Post by: NowhereMan on September 06, 2016, 04:21:06 PM
Prayers and positive vibes. I hope she heals quickly.

+infinity
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Post by: Bushy on September 06, 2016, 04:24:13 PM
Prayers and positive vibes. I hope she heals quickly.

+infinity

Me, too.

Bushy
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Post by: Tote on September 06, 2016, 06:56:11 PM
Thinking nothing but positive thought to Robin and the rest of the family.
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: e2g on September 09, 2016, 12:27:49 PM
thanks folks, it means a lot. BigJim, thanks for reaching out to Tracy, a mother/activist. She lost her son (and Nathan's classmate) to melanoma. She emailed us to ask if she could help and literally we were trying to sort out a huge SNAFU on the referrals to get into UCSF for brain surgery/radiation consult.  She emails her contacts and in a day, we have the appointments, and we are good to go. The relief in not having to deal with that is HUGE.

Robin has been on a new drug Keytruda for about a year, better known as the "jimmy carter" drug. Worked for him, not so much for Robin. First they slice or nuke the brain tumors, then decide what to do about the rest of her body.

on a side note, you gotta keep your sense of humor. So the tumor affects her left side, so it was dragging a bit. Then the drugs she is taking make her ravenously hungry. We are binge watching the walking dead. We looked at each other about the same time, and started cracking up. She is a living "walker."


Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: raydon on September 09, 2016, 01:28:15 PM
The strength and love in your family is inspiring.  My  thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Post by: porky (bp) on September 10, 2016, 12:26:43 AM
Wow, this is devastating to read. You and your family are such good people. I dont even know what to say. I have an idea of how you may be feeling though. Im so sorry you have to go through this. 💪❤️
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: BigJim on September 14, 2016, 08:57:46 AM
thanks folks, it means a lot. BigJim, thanks for reaching out to Tracy, a mother/activist. She lost her son (and Nathan's classmate) to melanoma. She emailed us to ask if she could help and literally we were trying to sort out a huge SNAFU on the referrals to get into UCSF for brain surgery/radiation consult.  She emails her contacts and in a day, we have the appointments, and we are good to go. The relief in not having to deal with that is HUGE.


Nice!!

Tracy is an amazing person and I am really glad she was able to get in touch with you and to use some of her contacts to help out...

http://melanomacoalition.org/board/tracy-cockerham/

I'll keep the good vibes and prayers heading towards Robin and your whole family, and please don't be shy about letting us know if there is anything else we can do.

 :smt008

Sincerely,

Jim
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Post by: porky (bp) on September 14, 2016, 07:23:32 PM
Eugene,

Thinking of Robin, Nathan, yourself and the rest of the family. Been on the minds of my family. Your good people, always appreciated your kindness to my family.

Pass Family
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: BigJim on May 10, 2017, 09:01:18 AM
Please keep the Tsuji family in your thoughts and prayers...

e2g's wife and Sharkbait's mother Robin passed away yesterday morning...you can read more about her journey in the earlier pages of this thread.

You can see Eugene's and Nathan's words on FB/IG attached below.

:smt010

Sincerely,

Jim

Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: AlsHobieOutback on May 10, 2017, 09:07:31 AM
So very sad to hear this...  I really am at a loss for words.   :smt010  So very sorry for your loss...
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Post by: spinal tap on May 10, 2017, 09:11:59 AM
Wow.  I've never met (or even Eugene) her but I'm saddened. 

Eugene and Nathan, my thoughts are with your family.

Nate
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Post by: PISCEAN on May 10, 2017, 09:25:28 AM
Our hearts are heavy today.
My best thoughts and deepest condolences to the Tsuji family.

You guys are real deal treasures, and I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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Post by: alien on May 10, 2017, 09:35:16 AM
Sorry to here the sad news.
are thoughts and prayer is with you.
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Post by: Bird on May 10, 2017, 09:39:11 AM
So sorry to hear this news.  Condolences and best wishes Eugene and Nathan. 
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Post by: FisHunter on May 10, 2017, 09:56:17 AM
my deep condolences to you, Nathan and family. Peace be with you.
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Post by: FishingAddict on May 10, 2017, 10:06:26 AM
My heartfelt condolences to the Tsuji family. 
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Post by: raydon on May 10, 2017, 12:49:55 PM
We can take Robin's advise and go live our lives to the fullest.  She was remarkable--as is her family. 
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Post by: rockfish on May 10, 2017, 01:32:38 PM
I saw this yesterday, so sad :(
We keep the Tsuji family in our thoughts and make sure to LIVE LIFE EVERY DAY
Maybe tonight should be fishing instead of vacuuming

Eugene and Nathan, our deepest condolences to you both
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Post by: Fish Flogger on May 10, 2017, 04:30:38 PM
Sending love to you and your family on this sad day. Peace be with you all.

Deva
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Post by: piski on May 10, 2017, 05:24:26 PM
Such tragic news. My heartfelt sympathies go out to the Tsuji family.
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Post by: Tote on May 10, 2017, 08:32:42 PM
I am so sorry. Sincere heart felt sympathy to your family.
One thing for sure, she certainly made one helluva man in Nathan.
May peace be with her.
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Post by: Bushy on May 11, 2017, 10:10:08 PM
Eugene and Nathan-

So sorry for your loss.  Please let me know if there's anything I can do to asssist the family at thistime, or in the future.

Your Friend,

Allen
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Post by: e2g on May 13, 2017, 06:35:10 PM
thanks guys. When Robin was first diagnosed in 2010, I googled her odds and found the scary ass number of 11 months. that turned into 7 damn good years. We hiked, we skiied, we ordered appetizers AND dessert. We truly lived the best lives we could together, accepting each activity she lost by finding another. When she couldnt work out anymore, we discovered binge watching tv. She truly only declined completely for a few months and I am happy that she is on the next adventure. After 34 years with me she deserves a break  :smt002

I am going to take a bit of time to get my head screwed on straight then I plan on catching up on some long delayed water therapy

Now lets all channel this love and energy to Steph



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Post by: Bulldog---Alex on May 13, 2017, 07:32:33 PM
thanks guys. When Robin was first diagnosed in 2010, I googled her odds and found the scary ass number of 11 months. that turned into 7 damn good years. We hiked, we skiied, we ordered appetizers AND dessert. We truly lived the best lives we could together, accepting each activity she lost by finding another. When she couldnt work out anymore, we discovered binge watching tv. She truly only declined completely for a few months and I am happy that she is on the next adventure. After 34 years with me she deserves a break  :smt002

I am going to take a bit of time to get my head screwed on straight then I plan on catching up on some long delayed water therapy

Now lets all channel this love and energy to Steph

Sorry for your loss. Time to stretch those wings and take a breath Brutha . Sounds like you gave her much comfort that she deserved.

Alex
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Post by: porky (bp) on May 13, 2017, 09:51:33 PM
Eugene, Nathan,

So very sorry and very sad to be reading this. My biggest fear. You guys are both amazing people and I am so very sorry. If you ever need to talk, hit me up. Been thinking about you all a lot this last year.
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Post by: Great Bass 2 on May 13, 2017, 10:41:54 PM
God bless you and your family Eugene. Molly waits for Robin on the other side. Cancer is a journey and Robin fought the good fight like Molly, Joel and Chef. In the end, we are all touched by the courage and dignity of the those who have traveled the the journey of cancer. Regardless of how the journey ends, their spirit and memories are ingrained in our hearts and souls forever and we are better people because of it. Not to diminish your loss because she was a special person and we will miss her dearly. Give Nathan a hug for me. He is a warrior like his mother. Rest in peace Robin.

Scott and Karen
Title: Re: Melanoma sucks
Post by: splashdown on May 14, 2017, 07:14:38 AM
Eugene,

Sorry for your loss. I just lost a close friend of mine two last week to Melanoma. He was 56 and fought it for three years. He was a great fisherman and was such a fixture with my Alaska crew. He too will be missed deeply. Hope you will heal from this and God bless you
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Post by: ravensblack on May 14, 2017, 07:52:06 AM
Through your love and care for Robin we have seen in real time what we all strive to be as a human. Myself and Linelle offer you our best wishes and peace. You are a great man. Love you.
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Post by: Eddie on May 14, 2017, 08:19:48 AM
I hope to meet you both someday.  I am touched by your loss, especially this day.  I mourn with you...